How to avoid dating insecure men
It’s sad that most of them don’t see how much they carry a chip on their shoulder, so they won’t truly get it if you point it out to them.
Insecure men protect themselves with a shell – that chip on their shoulder – but they don’t realize how much they put off others in everyday situations and how much they sabotage their own goals.
Frequently asking for reassurance Insecure men need reassurance like a shopping mall needs customers.
Deep down, insecure men don’t believe that they are good enough on their own, so they frequently ask others for validation to make them feel better.
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With insecure men, their ego is shaky to begin with, so anything that suggests that they were wrong or inadequate is met with a hostile defense. These men are more fragile than most people would believe; it’s only the romantic partners or families of these men who know just how insecure they really are.
If he's reluctant to open up to you about small things, it will be hard for him to open up about bigger things later on.
That makes it hard to build intimacy with him which is essential to any good relationship. Ladies' Man: He's bold in his approach has you comfortable and laughing in no time so before you know it, he gets the digits... This is because he's a pro at getting what he wants from women.
If you want to feel frustrated on a regular basis in your relationship, date someone who is insecure and defensive.
The overall lesson As frustrating as insecure men can be when you date them, please remember to view the problem through a lens of empathy.Comparing themselves to others Insecure men often use social comparison in daily life.