High school student dating teacher
Co-workers fall in love, and yes its taboo, but I don't think its intentional. My view is, it's normal to fall for people, however, they shouldnt be acted on in school. :( Based on what you narrated, chances are big that your professor also is romantically attracted to you.
If the feelings are genuine keep it to a minimum and wait until they've finished their school career. the way we look to each other, the way we adjust our breaktime just to see each other in the canteen. 7 months of just looking and looking to each other, smilling with no reasons.until on the 8th month which when i let him felt that i am upset ( because of one situation i encountered with him). one day, i get a simple response (because he never gave any response before) when i sent him a dish that we cooked (I am a HRM student), he told to my classmate, tell her that the food is really great and delicious! the second is, when my classmates asked him if he has a girlfriend and he answered no but he like someone ( i'm just around, when they were talking. However, because he is of 'teacher' position, and he places importance on acting and thinking right (ethically) as a teacher towards students, that's why he didn't respond to your letter or didn't tell you he likes you.
No one should have to feel guilty about their feelings. ( he also adjusts his breaktime when my tuesday schedule is complicated,and my breaktime is late. we were just on one room and my classmates shouted after they heard that). i think the reason is, he's controlling his feelings very much. Do you notice - that when he knew you were upset, he merely responded indirectly by asking your classmate to tell you that your food is tasty?
You can still interact with them and get to know them, without being creepy and crossing lines. he knew well how much i like him ( because i gave him a letter on teachers day and new year. knowing that he has no classschedule every tuesday, he's just on the faculty). If he is to tell you directly about the food being tasty, his action would be almost stepping into grey area which is very much danger zone and thus may have scandalous implication which is not good for him and not good for you too!
Every time I passed his class, I would stare through the window, hoping to get a glimpse of his face.
I would even change my route to pass his class at times. Then other times, my class was able to get him off topic and he would tell us cool things that always made me laugh.
I don't know if it's love or just a crush, but I've had feelings for him for almost a year now.
Fathers often attack in their daughters what they can’t acknowledge in themselves. ” Important relationships with students are sometimes curtailed because the teacher gets frightened and – crucially – is unable to ask for support from other professionals for fear of sounding perverse and unprofessional. The schoolgirl and her teacher were eventually found and returned to the UK where I hope she wasn’t shamed by her family. If only he’d talked to someone about what he was experiencing!
This adds to the confusion because, again, it’s illegal for parents to have sexual relationships with their children.
It’s hard for parents ever to talk about the sexual feelings they may have for their children. I’m talking about feelings at the other end of the sexual continuum – benign feelings of admiration and attraction, from the mother who says she wants to bite her baby’s peachy bum to the father who fondly strokes his daughter’s hair.
Admiring someone is normal and wanting them around it normal. I am ashamed of how much I will miss talking to him. I find myself thinking of ways to run into him at his next job. We are all human and whilst it isn't right for teachers and students to act upon feelings in a physical way, i feel it is okay for them to be close and if the feelings are mutual, carry them out and be friends.
And vulnerability can have many ways of manifesting itself, sexual attraction is only one. This is a really big thing i feel for senior students, who are almost adults who have this problem.A fifteen-year-old girl and her thirty-year-old lover.