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He or she may appear friendly and considerate, but these attributes are usually superficial.They are used as a way of blinding the other person to the personal agenda behind the sociopath’s behavior.Dear Angelina 25: Thank you so much for your response and understanding.I particularly liked your term "gaslighting." If you are referring to the movie wherein the adoring husband subtly tried to convince his wife that she was going mad.My ex would be the best of husbands (no sex or affection, of course), declaring to me that he was my best friend all the time, but would periodically and publicly shock me by revealing another side of himself.While he always abused sedatives, it was the cocaine that brought the worst out in him and ended the fantasy of my marriage -- or rather, legal agreement. SPs can’t really "marry" in the full sense as they cannot give of themselves.I also appreciate the notation of "detoxing" that you made. I am at the end of that period, now, and looking to rebuild whoever I am.If the job market were better, I think I could have gotten a job which would have helped me move on faster.
Research has shown that the sociopath is usually a person with an abundance of charm and wit.This pattern usually comes into evidence around the age of 15.If it is not treated, it can develop into adulthood.The causes of antisocial personality disorder are thought to be either genetic or environmental.
Children who are influenced by antisocial parents may adopt these tendencies.
Sociopaths are also unable to conform to what society defines as a normal personality.