Dating someone who has the same birthday as you
Now is a great time to take a fresh look at your life. More importantly, it would tell your ex how important they still are to you – not the kind of ego boost you need to give them. You can even start keeping a journal or a private blog.
After a deeply debilitating experience like a break-up, you’d remain in deep shock and pain for a while.
The time for that person in my life has now passed and it’s time to look forward.” The best way to shift your focus from something/somebody you want to forget is to channel it into something you can love with equal passion. Jump headfirst into that hobby you’ve always wanted to pursue. This is a great time to learn to find happiness within yourself – something that can see you through all future emotional challenges.
Focus on that most neglected but most important guy/girl – yourself. Holding on to your dignity at all costs is liberating. If you try to take revenge at this moment of emotional upheaval, you’d likely do things you’d regret immensely once you’ve gained your senses back. Bottling up all of that can be detrimental to your emotional health. If you don’t want to share this with anyone post your story anonymously in online forums and gather warmth from other members (these communities are usually very supportive).
The process of forgetting someone you loved can break you.
Or it can transform you into a stronger, more balanced and more mature version of yourself, with a much higher potential for choosing and creating deeply fulfilling relationships in the future.
If the person seems embarrassed, help them save face by reinforcing that we all do this with certain words.
The one way which will ensure you can’t forget them ever is continuing to “stay in touch” with them.