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The trick is to bring positive energy the relationship – filling it up and raising it overall.
The secret is that in any amazing relationship, both partners are bringing their own happiness into the relationship – that’s what makes it so rewarding and fulfilling for both of them.
Men are wired to focus on one thing at a time – whether that’s work, or going out with friends, or even playing video games.
Instead of looking to the relationship to “fill you up” emotionally, look at it as something that you fill up with your emotional tone and happiness.Your mood is what controls your vibe, and your vibe controls how everyone around you reacts to you.Negative moods create a negative vibe, which attracts negativity from everyone around you (including your partner).In fact, the absolute best thing to do when he says he needs space is to believe him, and let him have the space he’s looking for.
If you do that, he will be able to concentrate and solve whatever’s bothering him, and it makes him much much much more likely to want to come back to you once he’s figured things out.Chances are, he won’t need that long in his shell, but it’s crucial to recognize how important his “shell time” is for him to re-stabilize and gain the perspective he needs to constructively address whatever’s going on.