Break up after 3 months dating
But after the shock wears off, is 3-4 months after the breakup the hardest?
I am at 3 1/2 months milestone after the breakup, and after the initial shock wears off, I started to push forward, and it felt like I was starting to move on.
There’s not a lot in the realm of relationships that’s crappier than a bad breakup, especially after feeling him withdrawing from you and not knowing how to stop it.
All your emotions will be swirling in a tempest of pain and raging raw feeling, and it will seem like it’s going to go on forever. Eventually you’ll be fine – and move on stronger than you were before.
It felt like that I could see the light at the end of the tunnel, and suddenly, BOOM! Any advice other than "enough is enough, just get over it".
I am stuck in the middle of the tunnel, and that tiny light I could see from afar has gone. It is hard because I thought that, after 3 1/2 months, I would be in a better place, but I still hope to get back together with him, and although I haven't talked to him for almost 3 months, I still feel like it is not over. Yes, I agree that the first 4 months are the hardest.
I went through all of the emotions of anger etc again. Well, am on NC track again and plan on it to be forever.
I tried to talk to her and get her back and I wanted her to work with me but she said that nothing will change and she started crying because she can’t give me what I want which is the love I want to see and to get to hang out with her as well, I think about her every single day and I want her back but in the same time I feel like I deserve better cuz everything I showed her was love and care and everything a girl wish’s for.
Of course right after the breakup is the hardest because of the shock.
So to most people I pretend, I'm OK, only my close friends and family know I'm still not over him completely.
But we shouldn't listen to those people, each and every person and each and every relationship is different and everybody needs their own time and pace to heal, so don't pressure yourself, you will need as long as you need...most others are expecting me to have moved on already.